10 Signs That You are in Trouble Not in Love N0. 8 Will Shock You

Updated on January 16, 2017 in Singleness
0 on January 16, 2017

10 Signs That You are in Trouble Not in Love N0. 8 Will Shock You

  • Bisi Adewale

There are many girls like Agnes today who are in trouble but have blinded their eyes with a seeming cloak of love. Unfortunately, there are also some guys who are neck deep in trouble thinking they are in love. These tips would show you the true picture of your relationship.

10 Signs That You are in Trouble Not in Love N0. 8 Will Shock You

10 Signs That You are in Trouble Not in Love N0. 8 Will Shock You

What trouble is:

  1. Your love life is affecting your relationship with the Lord. You love your beloved more than the Lord; you prefer him or her to your creator. You are ready to do anything for your lover irrespective of how it might make God feel. Your prayer life is suffering, reading of the Bible does not appeal to you and your quiet time is dead all because you are in love. That is trouble, not love.
  2. Your love life affecting your studies. You can’t concentrate in school, your grades are falling, your academics is badly affected, you prefer being with your beloved than writing your exams. That is trouble, not love.
  3. Your love makes you sin regularly. Sexual sins, lies, abortion, stealing is the order of the day. You don’t see anything wrong in stealing your parent or employer’s money to satisfy your lover. You lie regularly just to be with him or her; you have sex and even commit abortion. This is dangerous to your destiny. It is trouble, not love.
  4. Your love life is affecting your relationship with your friends. Your new found love shuts out your old friends and pals. You abandon them and isolate yourself just to be with your new partner. It appears this new partner is the answer to the longing of your soul. You are satisfied with your lover in spite of how others feel. That is red light, T-R-O-U-B-L-E
  5. Your new love life affects your relationship with your parents, siblings and other family members. You abandon your family, spend longer time than usual with your lover, or even cohabitate. You hate staying with your people because now he or she is the only one that matters. Never mistake this one for love. This is trouble.
  6. You can’t influence your lover; anything he says is final. You are just like a slave to him. You can’t advise him, correct him, make him change his mind or influence him. This is simply bondage. You should be able to talk freely to anybody that claims to love you.
  7. You can’t control her. You are not in charge in that relationship. As a man, you must not be a dictator but a lover, nevertheless, but you must be the head in that relationship. You must at least have a level of control over her. A lady who cannot listen to you in courtship will not submit to you in marriage.
  8. It is all about SEX. Anytime you are together, all you do is to kiss, cuddle, fondle and have sex. This is not love; it is LUST. Sex is not love, love is not sex. If your love life is about sex, this is trouble!
  9. It is all about money. She becomes more loving and caring whenever there is money. She makes excessive and outrageous demands and becomes moody if you cannot meet her needs. I am afraid! You are not her lover but her “banker”. Stop deceiving yourself. This is trouble!
  10. He never proposes, but you are going steady. Don’t take him serious if he fails to speak his mind. No matter how hard he tries to show it, pretend you don’t see it until he says it. You will find yourself to blame later if you go ahead with that relationship without his proposal.

10 Signs That You are in Trouble Not in Love N0. 8 Will Shock You

10 Signs That You are in Trouble Not in Love N0. 8 Will Shock You

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