Girls typically like romance, so putting some thought into the way you ask a girl out is important. Chances are, if you’ve been seeing each other for a while and things are going well, she is probably waiting and hoping for the moment when you ask her to be your “official” girlfriend.
However, it’s still a good idea to make an effort when you ask her out, whether it’s on a first date or if you want to make things official. She’ll appreciate your effort, and the more sweet and creative you are, the better!
We get that asking a girl out can feel a little daunting or scary, and that can be the reason why some guys tend to put it off for as long as possible. But that’s where we can help. If you have a serious crush on a girl and you think the relationship could actually go somewhere, you want to lock that down before she gets disheartened or tired of waiting around.
Asking her out or asking her to officially be your girlfriend is the next step to make her realize that you have strong feelings for her. Make it special, and she’ll like you all the more!
Cute ways to ask a girl out
So if you think you are ready to finally ask your crush out, then check out these awesome ways to do it that we know she’ll just love!
#1 Take her on an extra special date. Whatever you usually do on dates, this has to be different. Whether it’s a fancy restaurant, a romantic walk and picnic, or something fun and crazy that you wouldn’t usually do, put time and thought into all the little details. Keep surprising her along the way, and at the end of the date, when she basically thinks you are the best guy ever, ask the question.
#2 Ask her on her birthday. Okay, so if you are desperate to ask her ASAP and her birthday has come and gone quite recently, then this isn’t the one for you. But if she’s got a birthday coming up, why not make it one to remember and ask her to be your girlfriend on her already-special day? If she says yes, it’s a pretty handy way of remembering your anniversary, too!
#3 Write her a poem. If she’s a romantic at heart, then she will love the thought and effort you will have put into writing a unique love poem just for her. It can be cute, funny, or silly—whatever you think she would appreciate the most. And even if you know it’s terrible, it’s the thought that counts, and we are sure that she’ll treasure it forever! If you want to be extra cute, you could deliver it line-by-line to her throughout the day, and then end with the question, “Will you be mine?”
#4 Write it in the sand or snow. A cute message in the sand or snow is an adorable and simple way to ask a girl out. If you can do it when she is not there and then “happen upon it,” that’s even better. But even if you write it out while she’s right in front of you, it will still be pretty sweet.
#5 Make her a treasure hunt. Everyone loves a good game, and her running around trying to solve your clues and riddles is sure to make her excited and thrilled with all the time and effort you have put in. Of course the last clue could lead to you, flowers in hand, waiting to ask the question in person.
#6 Put it in a fortune cookie. This a super cute way to ask someone out. If you’re not into baking these yourself, check out some online resources that allow you to order custom cookies. How could she say no to that?!
#7 Give her a balloon. If you feel as though you might get tongue-tied, this simple method says it all and is a great way to creatively ask out your *hopefully* future girlfriend. Just simply get a personalized balloon made where you can phrase the question however you would like, then tie it to her locker or her front door.
#8 Play her a song. This one is perhaps best avoided if you are not musically talented, but if there is one way to make a girl seriously swoon, it’s by playing her a song to show her how much she means to you. Go old-school and serenade her under the window, or perhaps book a slot at an open mic night and dedicate the song to her. Playing a song can literally melt a girl’s heart, so wherever you choose to do it, you are sure to impress her and get that “yes” that you have been hoping for!
#9 Get a little help from some friends. Get your friends to gather somewhere and hold up message boards asking her out. It may make her blush, but she’ll totally love it—we’re sure!
#10 Get your bake on. If you want to do something cute, why not make her a homemade gift? Baking is a fairly foolproof way to show her you care, and if you turn up with a sweet treat, she is sure to think you are super sweet as well!
#11 Create the perfect atmosphere. What do girls love more than flowers and candles? Kittens? Well, yes, maybe kittens, but perhaps hold off on those until she has definitely agreed to go out with you! If you have a garden or a great outdoor spot that you know is private, then why not set up your very own romantic haven outside? Flowers, fairy lights, cushions, and candles will all add to the romantic atmosphere to create the perfect setting to ask your girl out.
Girls love it when you show your creative side and demonstrate that you are the kind of guy who‘s willing to go that extra mile for her. With these creative, cute, and fun ideas, she is sure to think you are awesome enough to date!