13 Ways to look sexy and attractive
13 Ways to look sexy and attractive
Physical attractiveness can make your world a friendlier place, but it can’t give you love. After all, only the young and the careless fall head over heels in love solely on grounds of physical attraction.
But all said and done, physical attractiveness does matter, whether you’re in love or still looking for love. It gives you the second glance you need to attract someone, and it shows people you respect yourself and take care of yourself.
Now that you understand the part physical attraction plays in impressing the opposite sex and how you can use it to look better and feel better about yourself, here are 13 ways on how to increase physical attraction that can help you jump a few notches in the attraction meter overnight!
#1 Look good. It’s harsh but true, appearances do matter. After all, physical attractiveness relies solely on outward appearances. Run a few miles every day and shed that excess fat. If you love yourself and care about the image you’re portraying to the world, you won’t let yourself go.
Your physique plays a very big part in physical attraction. If you’re oversized, you could still look cute and beautiful. But physical attraction isn’t about being cute. It’s about creating the sexual desire.
#2 Stand up straight. A person who walks tall with an erect back catches attention all the time. Good posture will always make you tower above everyone else even if you’re shorter than the people around you, and it’ll definitely make you appear more physically attractive too.
#3 Clothes that looks good. Dress in clothes that look good on you, and accentuate your assets. Do you have a favorite pair of jeans? You probably like it because you feel it makes you look better than your other jeans. This may give you a yardstick to choose other clothes that can help you appear more attractive.
#4 Don’t feel threatened. Just believe in yourself. Do you feel threatened each time someone who looks good walks into the room? If you feel threatened or self-conscious around attractive people, you’ll never feel bigger or better than them.
#5 Stop comparing yourself. We’re all perfect in our own way. You don’t have to be more skinny, more full figured, muscular or leaner, just to look better than someone else. You are who you are, so work around your flaws to be the best you can be. Comparing yourself with someone else constantly will not help you, nor will it make you look any better.
#6 Don’t reveal your insecurity. Do you force your partner to avoid looking at someone attractive? Or do you yell at them when their eyes keep scanning the room towards another attractive person? If you do, that just reveals your insecurity. If you show your partner just how insecure you are around another attractive person, your partner too will start believing that you’re not very attractive.
Along the same lines, don’t bitch about an attractive person’s appearance. It only reveals your own insecurities when it comes to appearances.
#7 The art of touching. A subliminal way to appear more physically attractive is by using the power of touch. Lingering touches at the right time will always make you seem more physically attractive.
#8 The right fragrance. Your body produces natural fragrances that can increase your physical attractiveness. But to accentuate it, you can also use perfumes that complement your body’s fragrance and make you smell more sexually attractive.
#9 A healthy appearance. Get a good night’s rest every night, and avoid surrounding yourself with negative people. When you feel positive about life, you’ll start to feel more positive about yourself. Eat a lot of fresh fruits and vegetables every day, and your skin will start to glow with a naturally attractive radiance within a few weeks.
#10 Pamper yourself. Have you ever noticed someone on the street with that *rich person glow*? They appear rich, look exceptionally well dressed even if they’re just wearing jeans and a tee. Why is that? Well, for starters, they respect their body and take care of it. Work out, eat well, and irrespective of whether you’re a guy or a girl, pamper yourself with beauty products. The more you take care of your skin and your body, the more attractive you’d appear.
#11 Be mysterious. An air of mysteriousness about you always makes you seem more attractive and sexy. Don’t reveal all too soon when you’re talking to someone for the first time. If you’re too enthusiastic and eager to please when you meet someone, you’d lose the aura of mysteriousness that can make you appear a lot more attractive.
#12 Eye contact. Building eye contact is one of the best ways to increase physical attraction and sexual tension with the person you like. Make strong eye contact and look right into their eyes while speaking with them. A good eye contact makes you appear confident, and that makes you more sexually appealing.
#13 Grooming habits. Physical attraction is all about the details. Dress well, groom yourself and have a shower regularly. Clean, supple hands and a well groomed appearance always make you seem more likeable and attractive.
Physical attraction may not be the most important criterion for a happy relationship. But for a first glance that may eventually turn into love, physical attraction definitely plays a part that’s bigger than everything else.