Should I stay over on this third date?
I have met a guy through online dating back in early August. Our first date was over coffee. We had a second date in the following week and he gave me a kiss at the end of the night. He asked for another date but then cancelled the day of. He said he was coming down with something and if we can reschedule until he is back from his trip. I was not happy and thought it was flaky, but said it will have to wait until I am back from my 3 week vacation. He emailed me while he was away and I also tried to respond during my trip. Right before I was coming, I stopped hearing from him for about 3 weeks. He was starting school again and his parents were visiting at the time. I figured he ghosted and did not contact him again. Then about 2 weeks ago, he reach out to me. We first planned to see a movie. He asked if I would stay over. Then he suggested to have a home date at his place and asked again if I would stay over. I was hesitant on how to respond to him. Unfortunately, I was a bit sick this past week and asked to postpone our date. He said we will have to see and I only got one text from him since then.
So I have always dated and never had serious relationships. As tempting as it is, it is not my style to be staying over at a guy’s place so early on. I should have probably just told him that. I was so surprised that he would ask since he did not seem to be that type. So is it pretty obvious that he just wanted to hook up? Should I just call him out on it and see how he response? At this point, I am probably just going to move on. I’d really appreciate to hear what you all think.